Start the conversation with your doctor

Build a partnership. Be direct. Every topic is fair game when it comes to your health.

Even though many men start to have problems with urination as they grow older, these should not be ignored as just a "normal part of aging." Not by you. Not by your doctor.

BPH symptoms are similar to signs of other, more serious conditions. So a proper diagnosis is critical to your health.

Tips for starting a conversation with your doctor about symptoms of BPH

  • Keep in mind that your doctor is trained to deal with health issues like this
  • Try saying something like: "Since the last time I saw you, I’ve noticed that I’m waking up frequently at night to urinate." or "I’m having problems urinating."
  • Be ready to describe your symptoms to your doctor. Don’t be embarrassed or shy—remember, BPH is a common problem among older men. It may help to record your symptoms in a diary
  • Bring a list of all medications you currently take, including non-prescription drugs and supplements (such as cold and sinus medications, vitamins, etc.)
  • Write down your questions before you go. Take notes during the visit or bring someone with you who will take notes for you and can listen along with you
  • Don’t hesitate to ask for more information if something isn’t clear to you
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It may help you to fill out the American Urological Association BPH Symptom Score Questionnaire.

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